The trap — psychologists call it the arrival fallacy — is believing that you're just one more achievement away from happiness. Sell the company, find the partner, lose the weight, and then you'll have it made. The problem is, that's not what happens. What happens instead is that you "solve" one thing, and another takes its place.
The self-improvement project can never fully succeed because it takes the feeling that something is wrong with you at face value. And when growth is organized around deficiency, every attempt to improve — whether through therapy, coaching, or achievement — risks reinforcing the very feeling it's trying to escape.
It's a pattern I know all too well.
I founded and sold the companies, chased the relationships, and spent years trying to fix myself — only to end up right back where I started. Then I found a different kind of approach. One that answers the question:
What if nothing is missing?
My work draws from Aletheia Unfolding, developmental and depth psychology, Internal Family Systems (IFS), somatic practices like Focusing, and non-dual meditation to help you relate differently to yourself, your ambition, and your life.
This work is an invitation to discover that there is more to who you are than the role you've been playing.
I didn't know it was possible to feel this good…I'm lucky to have explored a number of modalities before working with Jeremy, from the Hoffman Process to traditional therapy. But nothing has impacted me quite as powerfully as my work with Jeremy. I've referred a number of friends and family members to him now and everyone agrees that working with him is unlike anything we've done before (and…that he's a witch).I started seeing Jeremy shortly after exiting my mental health care company. If I'm being honest, I didn't necessarily know what I was signing up for when we started working together. I was very curious about his work, and personally, I was trying to figure out what I wanted my next life chapter to look like. At the time, I figured there would be no harm in at least trying a few sessions.
Now, one year (and far more than a few sessions) later, I still see Jeremy weekly. I didn't know it was possible to feel this good.
There's no other way to put it: Jeremy is…a witch. He has this powerful ability to ground me in a state of presence, help me weed out unhelpful noise around me and really tap in to what I want, what I'm afraid of, and how to overcome my fears to live a life I feel more authentic within and fulfilled by. I'm lucky to have explored a number of modalities before working with Jeremy, from the Hoffman Process to traditional therapy. But nothing has impacted me quite as powerfully as my work with Jeremy. I've referred a number of friends and family members to him now and everyone agrees that working with him is unlike anything we've done before (and…that he's a witch).
Ariela Safira
Founder & CEO, Zeera (acquired)
In a session with Jeremy, he somehow both cuts to the core of your psyche with surgical precision, yet also leaves you feeling like you've just gotten the warmest hug. His work is beyond coaching; it is shamanic in nature.
Dr. Jordana Jacobs
Clinical Psychologist
I've had multiple life-changing sessions in the course of my work with Jeremy. Each one revealed blind spots I hadn't seen, even after years of therapy. In many ways, working with Jeremy felt like the integration point of all the inner work I've done over the years.
Jake Chai
Co-Founder, Mana Tree Properties
When I first met Jeremy, I was looking for the answers in all the wrong places…I came to realize that the love I’ve been searching for has been with me this entire time.When I first met Jeremy, I was looking for the answers in all the wrong places. I was looking around, searching for peace, searching for love, searching for happiness. As Jeremy and I rooted through my past, I came to realize that the love I’ve been searching for has been with me this entire time.
It took a lot of digging deep inside to see the truth. His guidance gave me the safe space I needed in order to see what was really there the entire time.
Dana Tompkins
Restaurateur
Jeremy helped me find the kind, compassionate self that was hidden away. I had tried therapy previously, and there's lots of lip service paid to this idea of "self love". Jeremy showed me how to practice self love by letting your mind live in the present.When I started working with Jeremy, there was a part of my inner voice that was cruel and critical. I was so unkind to myself at times and it was affecting my relationships with others and to myself.
Jeremy helped me find the kind, compassionate self that was hidden away. I had tried therapy previously, and there's lots of lip service paid to this idea of "self love". Jeremy showed me how to practice self love by letting your mind live in the present. It's all right there in your own head, if you can take some time to listen with openness and compassion.
I'm so grateful to Jeremy for opening my mind to true self reflection and intentional inner conversation. It was exactly what I needed at this time of my life.
Dr. Jason Birnbaum
Assistant Professor of Radiology
Jeremy guided me into the deepest space within myself, and did it as he does everything: thoughtfully, intentionally, with skill and care. Whether you've had 1,000 therapy sessions or just 1 — time with him is a gift I recommend you give yourself.
Allie Hoffman
Founder, The Feels
Jeremy has a remarkable gift for creating a space that's both grounding and expansive all at once. He intuitively attunes to what you need in the moment while never losing sight of the bigger picture.
Dr. S
Professor of Psychiatry and Psychoanalysis
Jeremy guided me through a deep process with skill, exquisite presence, and empathy. Beyond his expertise with the modality, he brings a breadth of knowledge that adds depth, nuance, and a uniquely grounded context to the experience.
Riwa Harfoush
Founder, Mapping Revelations
Though I'd done IFS before, working with Jeremy took me somewhere much deeper. What I thought would take months to untangle: grief around the loss of my mom, patterns of overwhelm and procrastination— began to shift in just a couple of sessions.Though I'd done IFS before, working with Jeremy took me somewhere much deeper. What I thought would take months to untangle: grief around the loss of my mom, patterns of overwhelm and procrastination— began to shift in just a couple of sessions.
If you're ready to meet yourself with more compassion, clarity, and courage, Jeremy's the person I'd recommend without hesitation.
Alice Panikian
Founder, Kindred
When I came to Jeremy, I was stuck in a self-imposed loop: being overly critical of myself internally, taking it out on those I love, and no matter what I did (therapy, executive coaching, etc.), I couldn't break out of it. After working with Jeremy for a few months, things really started to change for me.When I came to Jeremy, I was stuck in a self-imposed loop: being overly critical of myself internally, taking it out on those I love, and no matter what I did (therapy, executive coaching, etc.), I couldn't break out of it.
After working with Jeremy for a few months, things really started to change for me. I got deeply in touch with my parts and recognized the patterns that were keeping me stuck. I now have the tools to be kinder to myself, care for others more deeply, appreciate what matters, and navigate life's challenges without as much fear.
I'm extremely grateful for Jeremy's incredibly knowledgeable and deeply empathetic approach to his work.
Evan
Founder
Background
15 years as a venture-backed founder and CEO. Created the original 24-hour, forward-chronological content format, later popularized as Stories. #1 in the App Store. Two exits.
Training & Influences
Trained as an Aletheia coach and initiated into a Shipibo-Konibo lineage of curanderismo. Deeply influenced by Internal Family Systems, somatic practice (especially Focusing and neo-Reichian bodywork), Jungian depth psychology and comparative mythology, the Diamond Approach, and various contemplative and indigenous traditions.
Who This Is For
Founders, executives, and high-achievers who have done everything right — and found it didn't resolve the thing they were actually after. People who have already tried therapy, coaching, or the next achievement and sensed the answer isn't in that direction. And people who are still building — but already suspect that it won't be enough.
Find you.
Weekly 50-minute sessions, typically over 6–9 months.